Foreign men have varying success in the response rate they obtain when contacting Polish women. We hope these tips will be useful to those who, for one reason or another don't get many replies to their email and letters. Use them when you use the search tools at Polish Women
1. Move off line as soon as possible.
Make your first contact on line but then go off line as soon as possible. Send a letter. Send a gift. Talk on the telephone. Talk in a chat room.
The internet is a cold, dangerous place. Replace it with a warm note, a small gift and, above all, a telephone call. Nothing can replace the sound of your voice.
2. Make a good first impression.
You can only make one first impression. So be sure that you do it right the first time.
The first questions a lady asks herself is, "Who is this man? What is he like? What does he do? What does he want?"
So tell her.
To get a response, write something interesting. You should write a letter that stands out from the competition. Include important information about yourself such as your age, occupation, if you already have children, if those children live with you, what you interests are, etc. Also write something interesting about the lady and why you are attracted to her. If she has a dog and you're interested in animals, ask about it. If she's interested in skiing, and you share that interest, ask her about it.
Don't be quick and cavalier. Show that you are serious about what you are offering. Take a little time and you increase your chances of success.
3. Enclose a good photo.
If you can, enclose a good photo of yourself when writing to a lady. Do not send one of you and your friends drinking, with your arm around some girl, with sunglasses, or one that makes it hard for you to be seen. Include a close up shot of your upper body; one in which you can see your face clearly.
Choose your background well. A lake, the seashore, a car, a boat, a pool and anything else that you think will make the lady see you as you live. She, like you, is interested in the long term and she is interested in how you live. Remember, this is really all the lady has to go on, so make sure you make a good impression.
4. Consider the language problems.
She may be very beautiful, but if she doesn't speak your native language it will be more difficult. This is not to say only pick ladies who speak English, but just that you need to consider this when selecting who to write to.
Most Polish women understand basic English. And they learn English remarkably fast since English is a much easier language to learn than Polish.
5. Evaluate your success and try, try again.
If at first you don't succeed, evaluate your letter and expectations, and try again. There is a lady waiting for everyone, it's just a matter of finding her.
6. Send a gift.
If you are really interested in a special lady and wish to ensure a reply, send the lady a gift, some flowers, candy or perfume. Very few people do this. But when they do it, it almost always results in a reply. It's a very effective option that makes a big difference.
7. Protect yourself from Spam.
Adult sites are notorious about spam. Some of them collect email addresses and sell them to spammers. And sometimes you find someone who just keeps writing email to you after you try to break the connection. We have a serious problem ourselves. We recommend that you protect yourself using the same spam protection procedures that we do. We base our protection on the MailWasher. If you have only one email address that you want to protect, you can use this system free. If you have more than one, start with the free version and see if you like it.
Recommended Steps
Keeping these basics in mind, here are some recommendations.
Install spam protection. To get information about how to use the free MailWasher, click on Mail Washer.
You have to get the ball in play. If you are not in the game, you will not win. So join the best dating services that have a heavy concentration of Polish women.
And when you join make a good first impression. You can get free membership, but as you would expect, free membership has its limitations. Obviously you would expect the matchmaking services to allow the full members to have more benefits. But more importantly, the women quickly distinguish between free members and men who look like they are serious.
Write each of the women that interest you and take the conversation off line or to your own private video chat. And in the process, be sure to use the hints that we have provided.
You will find it easiest to succeed if you have your own private video chat. You will make women more comfortable and more likely to contact you off line.
Start by adding your profile to dating services. You can start corresponding using the services offered by the dating services. Then for sure success, give people who respond your video chat or off line contact information and work from there. It is that simple.
Recommended Places To Find Polish Women
These are the best places that we know of to meet large numbers of Polish women.
If someone offers you a free search use it.
Add your free profile in as many places as possible.
Make some trial contacts to learn how the systems work.
Once you are comfortable, for best success, upgrade and become a full member.
Be Sure To Add Your Profile To Each Of These.
If you follow these hints, you will be have a better chance to outshine the competition and to find your friend and lifemate.
Good Luck on your search. I hope that we have helped.